Trying to remember how to say no
It’s been a while since I said yes to so many things that I started to get an overly full diary but I’m back there and loving it!
It’s the reason for the lack of blogging, the reason for the lack of sane responses to emails, and I’m going to blame my insanity on being silly busy for most of my life.
So here’s a list, half to remind myself of what I’m trying to complete, and half for you to see what I’m up to:
1) Pastorate - my church divides itself into large small groups known as pastorates. They’re a necessity in a church of 3,000-4,000 back when there was only five services on a Sunday. There’s now seven. We meet every second Tuesday at church for some prayer, teaching, and food. It’s a solid evening. Anyway my pastorate are a fairly socialable bunch so we have fairly regular nights out together and enjoyed a wonderful weekend in Ireland last month. Apparently I’m something resembling an outreach officer for the pastorate, which brings me nicely to the things that we do on the other Tuesday in every two weeks…
2) St Matthew’s shelter - provides shelter and food for 35 homeless men and women in London on a Tuesday night. It’s part of the West London Churches Homelessness Concern and the shelter rotates around churches in the West London area each night of the week. I pull along 5 pastorate members every other Tuesday to help with setting up, serving food, and building relationships with some of the most amazing people I’ve met in London, who also happen to not have anywhere to sleep.
3) TakingItGlobal - youth activism and involvement in communities worldwide. I’ve been involved forever and a day it feels like *but* I am now a voluntary project editor for them, which works nicely as I can do it virtually and whenever I have time. With over 2,500 projects worldwide registered with TIG, I help in all sorts of ways. It’s a blast!
4) Paid employment - I am currently employed as a policy assistant for the established Church in the pastoral and closed churches division. It pays the bills and allows me to do lots of other stuff in my spare time. I don’t intend to do it forever.
5) Halfway house - I’m helping with a start-up charity that will setup a halfway house for women coming out of Holloway Prison in London. I do website design stuff and pretend to be fairly au fait with all things IT. I also now organise fundraising events because I like organising and event management. It’s fun and I find it oddly relaxing.
6) Swimming - I theoretically swim 3-4 times a week, depends on the week, depends on what I’ve got on, depends on silly things, but I love my new Aquabeat so it keeps me fit and happy.
7) British Labour Party - I am a new member of the British Labour Party and will be helping to ensure that the Tories don’t win like National at the next Brit election. The New Zealand election result made me realise that I am quite definitely a centre-lefty, not a ‘centre-right with a little bit of Act thrown in or good measure’ person. I am looking forward to getting back into campaigning.
I think that’s it for now. Those are the things you’ll hear me talking about most often. I am loving being involved with a few NGOs and charities, and having time to do that is really precious. I’m off to Wales for Christmas and will spend New Years with a few of my LSE friends celebrating what I hope to be a very exciting new year.
