That long overdue update . . .
I’ve been staying in Passfield with friends for the past couple of weeks and on Monday I’m heading to Chi and Nick’s for a week and a half. Then back to Passfield for a few days before I move into my new flat.
Yup . . . as of Monday last week, I have a room in a flat in Bloomsbury (where Passfield is and in the centre of London - WC1). I move in on October 30 and I can’t wait!!! It’s a basement flat with heaps of light in a old secure mansion-block type place with two aussie girls from Melbourne (who didn’t know each other before the flat). They’re fabulous, the flat is fantastic and the room is really nice and gets lots of light despite being below street level (this is what the moat-like ditches are for I hear). The location is AMAZING, the cost is PERFECT and even better is that I can now really really afford it because I also have a proper proper job . . .
I have been hired by . . . wait for it . . . the Church of England (yes that’d be the Anglicans) . . . to work as a policy assistant in the Pastoral and Redundant Churches department. I shall write a little splurge about it all later but it’s a fantastic job and it pays, which is also important, and the people are again amazing and it’s based in Church House in Westminster and I can catch one bus there from my flat everyday and walk home if I want (less than an hour’s walk we think). A complete miracle in London where buses only cost 90p now. It sounds weird, I know, but the Pastoral and Redundant Churches department do some really interesting things and the more I’ve read about the job, the more intrigued I’ve become. Good hours, good pay, good people . . . I really couldn’t ask for better.
It’s been a worrying month for me, not having a place to live from the end of September and being rather unemployed is not the state I really wanted to be in but it’s been ok. The Accommodation Office rang me up the week after Orientation Week and offered me work as a general assistant while I dealt with interviews and the like. The Office is great, the people and fab to work with/for and I’m having lots of fun answering mundane emails and trying to work a database that refuses to do what we want it to. The best part is that I get people coming up to me each day going “I’m homeless, what can you do for me?” and I say “So am I, so I understand how you’re feeling”. I have fab friends here who are very sweet for letting me camp-out with them while my new room becomes available. I have a four-door wardrobe . . . I’m very excited :o)
This is rather lengthy so I shall stop here and work on attending to emails and cleaning the current room I’m occupying. In return for housing, I’m cleaning people’s rooms (a fair trade I feel and they seem happy with it too). I can’t promise any more updates until I’m less homeless but that doesn’t mean I haven’t got anything interesting to say. I promise more interesting/less me-based updates once I’ve moved in.
your,e not homeless, but in a state of hidden homeless,by which i mean you do actually have a
roof over your head at night,To be in a true homeless position,it means that you are living, and sleeping on the streets, which i hope you never will experiance, as its not fun…..
been there, done it, got many t-shirts,
While I do agree with you and know that the circumstances you describe are truly awful, you’ll find the dictionary (OED) states that homeless means ” 1. Having no home or permanent abode.” or ” 2. Affording no home or dwelling-place.” As both of these apply for me, I think I can legitimately claim to be homeless although not in the sense you are talking about. I guess the thing is that I’m lucky to have the friends in London that I do have because without them I would be sleeping on the streets/park benches. I have no money of my own and am surviving through the grace and kindness of friends and family and while I know this period will end soon, there were definite moments when I really struggled to cope with this.
The homelessness that you speak of is a specific severe type of homelessness but I guess what I’m saying is that being homeless is more than that and there are many families worldwide who are homeless but with friends and families providing whatever support they can means that they are able to keep their heads above water. It’s far from the ideal circumstances, and in some cases can lead to serious danger as they put their trust in people who are untrustworthy, and while they may have a roof over their heads they are still homeless - of no fixed abode.
hi fi,
there is a big difference i think you will find between rhectoric, and reality…
after reading your blog the term the acdemics would use is sofa-surfing…
which is not without its own dangers, as you decribe should you be staying with a stranger
im glad you have a circle of family and friends, in which you are able to be in this transititional
state, homelessness is not charecteristic[ hope i spelt that right] just a phase in many people
lifes,see the person not the label…. as you maybe you are aware
stay positive…trust yourself, and only those close to you
i personally have experianced being street homeless
sofa-surfed, squatted, hostels,